Vanity is a peculiar characteristic that is way overvalued. It’s an obstacle to seduction, and has no redeeming quality in reality. What’s funny about the trait is how much it affects most people’s lives. Every little thought, move, and action that ego driven people make balances precariously on reactions and approval from others. The fear of being judged by others poorly has them paralyzed to do anything. Yet the importance of the whole concept is borderline ridiculous. People’s minds are pre-occupied with themselves. For the most part, other people are barely even thinking about you, and every little thing you do. They’re worried about themselves, and every little thing they are doing! It’s a battle of the effeminate limp wristed worrywarts. Sorry to pop your bubble, but you really are not so important that people are staring at you with baited breath, waiting for your approval of them. Relax. It’s how you feel inside that matters. By the way, the guys leering in your direction at the gym are not laughing at your technique, they’re checking out the ass on the blonde behind you.

Insecurity is a benchmark achievement of the Liberal Media Guilt Police. Equality for women was the feminist sales pitch, but it was just a camouflage for their real intentions. The goal was to castrate men and give woman all the power. Female Equality is retarded socialist brainwashing that preaches Man was not intended to be an aggressive overachiever or stand up for himself. They lecture how you should question everything over and over in your mind from a PC stance of how others will feel about it, until the nuances and fear stop you from committing to do anything. Men should be equally passive and miserable, and allow women to control us.

Insecurity keeps you from making decisions without the endorsement from women; avoid this attitude like the plague if you want pussy. In the modern era, when you’re a nice guy or a gentleman, women respond by walking all over you like a spoiled brat. Insecurity will destroy your chances with seducing women. It forces you to make decisions out of desperation; decisions that are not in your best interests. When you are insecure, you are an open season target to predatory woman. They can smell weakness in a man a mile away, and will role-play and quickly assume control of your life and your wallet. Through selective limitation of the sex supply, they tear through your assets until you go broke, or until they bore of the game.

Subconsciously, women all seek a man of strength, as he shows the signs of being a provider. In conversations, show you are not the least bit concerned if you disagree with something, and that you will never kiss her ass. When a woman gets a little emotional, remember that she is testing you. Stand up for yourself, and show her she is dealing with a strong man whose behavior she cannot control. Have your own opinions, without being argumentative. Women love intelligence. If she asks, offer up compelling alternative views and be tad controversial with a smile. Eventually, whether it’s a few hours, or a few dates, her bitch shield will come down.

Learn how to avoid falling into the same old patterns and negative mind games you play on yourself. It’s easy to be a pussy and make excuses for never trying for the hotter girls that you really want. The typical excuse is thinking you have to been rich to get women. The appearance of having taste does not mean you have to be wealthy by any means. It’s not like you are showing women financial statements, portfolios, and promising diamonds. The dating world is full of phoniness on both ends of the spectrum. Rest assured, half the Posers in the Porsche’s and Fountain Speedboats are in hock up to their eyeballs with lease payments they can’t afford, living the life they wish were true. It’s no different than the phony bleach blondes with the boob jobs, tummy tucks, and the expensive car and house paid for by the ex. No excuses allowed. You got to take a lot of swings at the plate before you start connecting like a professional.

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When a woman is speaking, believe half of what you see and none of what you hear, until proven otherwise. It takes skills and practice in the field to have the silver tongue. Most men having a lousy pick up ratio due to the inability to turn their ego off. They spend their time trying to sell themselves with words; bragging, and trying to convince a girl she needs him. This is the anti-seducer approach. True seduction is a soft sell; it creates feelings and emotions subconsciously, and elevates your target’s desires without you speaking. You want her to see the benefits of what you have to offer, without showing any self-interest. Give her attention, but bust her chops and play mind games with her insecurities. Create sexual tension. Act only mildly interested to indifferent, since your life is busy without women. You build value by creating the image of being successful, desired, unavailable, and in demand. They all want what they can’t have. Once you master your presentation, it’s just a simple matter of learning the basics of charisma and seductive conversation.

You can sit around being afraid to approach women, or you can take action and learn. There are winners, losers, and nothing in between. Role-playing puts you in the driver seat, and will quickly take your dating success to the next level. Just like the actors in Ocean’s Eleven, we are simply choosing to master the alpha traits that women want to see in a man, until the image becomes our lifestyle. As a guideline to flaunting the desired masculine image (Alpha Foundation), let’s make it simple. Be a Man. Strut your masculinity and be a confident sexual hunter like your caveman ancestors. Do the exact opposite of what Cosmo, Oprah and the whole limp-wristed, bed wetting, PC crowd suggests. Remember your grumpy, stubborn old grandpa? He would be a stud today with that attitude. Be a ballsy individual who does what he wants, when he wants, without fear of backlash. Last time I checked, there is only one person in your casket.

Who cares what other people think about you? Don’t get caught dead wasting your time and money desperately seeking a girl’s approval, or sucking up to women. If a new girl isn’t interested in an alpha male, dump her immediately and date half dozen others. Dating is just a numbers game.

Make early success in business your number one goal. When you achieve success, the women will find you. Build a lifestyle full of challenges in work, hobbies and sports. Set goals to learn new skills. By adding a variety of new activities in life, you keep yourself mentally and physically engaged. You want to reach a point where you ooze confidence in yourself. By making this your reality, you erase the desperation emotion and approval seeking that women smell a mile away. Women should be just one thing you enjoy out of many. When you lead a fulfilling lifestyle, you learn to really not give a damn when a chick you dig turns you down. There are dozens of new targets in your life each week; it’s just a matter of knowing where to look and how to work them. Now let’s examine how to display the characteristics that make up each of the Universal Alpha Foundation traits.

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