When a woman is speaking, believe half of what you see and none of what you hear, until proven otherwise. It takes skills and practice in the field to have the silver tongue. Most men having a lousy pick up ratio due to the inability to turn their ego off. They spend their time trying to sell themselves with words; bragging, and trying to convince a girl she needs him. This is the anti-seducer approach. True seduction is a soft sell; it creates feelings and emotions subconsciously, and elevates your target’s desires without you speaking. You want her to see the benefits of what you have to offer, without showing any self-interest. Give her attention, but bust her chops and play mind games with her insecurities. Create sexual tension. Act only mildly interested to indifferent, since your life is busy without women. You build value by creating the image of being successful, desired, unavailable, and in demand. They all want what they can’t have. Once you master your presentation, it’s just a simple matter of learning the basics of charisma and seductive conversation.

You can sit around being afraid to approach women, or you can take action and learn. There are winners, losers, and nothing in between. Role-playing puts you in the driver seat, and will quickly take your dating success to the next level. Just like the actors in Ocean’s Eleven, we are simply choosing to master the alpha traits that women want to see in a man, until the image becomes our lifestyle. As a guideline to flaunting the desired masculine image (Alpha Foundation), let’s make it simple. Be a Man. Strut your masculinity and be a confident sexual hunter like your caveman ancestors. Do the exact opposite of what Cosmo, Oprah and the whole limp-wristed, bed wetting, PC crowd suggests. Remember your grumpy, stubborn old grandpa? He would be a stud today with that attitude. Be a ballsy individual who does what he wants, when he wants, without fear of backlash. Last time I checked, there is only one person in your casket.

Who cares what other people think about you? Don’t get caught dead wasting your time and money desperately seeking a girl’s approval, or sucking up to women. If a new girl isn’t interested in an alpha male, dump her immediately and date half dozen others. Dating is just a numbers game.

Make early success in business your number one goal. When you achieve success, the women will find you. Build a lifestyle full of challenges in work, hobbies and sports. Set goals to learn new skills. By adding a variety of new activities in life, you keep yourself mentally and physically engaged. You want to reach a point where you ooze confidence in yourself. By making this your reality, you erase the desperation emotion and approval seeking that women smell a mile away. Women should be just one thing you enjoy out of many. When you lead a fulfilling lifestyle, you learn to really not give a damn when a chick you dig turns you down. There are dozens of new targets in your life each week; it’s just a matter of knowing where to look and how to work them. Now let’s examine how to display the characteristics that make up each of the Universal Alpha Foundation traits.

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